Today, I will talk about how our children can put themselves in victim mode by unconscious use of words. I've been reading and hearing a lot from people about the recent shootings in America. I want to address two of the responses people have had. I will address the first in this episode, and the second in the next episode.
The first response I want to address are people who go into victim mode, and this can be our children, or it can be us in this mode. There is a lot of fear. People are afraid for themselves, for their families, for their neighbors, their country, and even the world. In essence, they have enough fear to go around, and these people feel for the victims and their families, but become overwhelmed and may shut down thinking about those events. Now they might say things like “It is hard. It is a tragedy. It is unbelievable. It is unacceptable.”