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CYNTHIA ARMSTRONG

What Our Child’s Behaviors Are Not

By Cynthia Armstrong

Today I wanted to talk about what our child's behaviors are not. When we look at our children, sometimes we'll say, oh, they're just lazy, or we'll say, oh, that's their personality and we decide what their behaviors are and we stop looking for answers.

Hi, my name is Cynthia Armstrong, General and special education teacher, and I'm a mother of two children. I homeschooled for five years with my children, and I've also had all that academic study and I continue to work in the elementary schools. The things that I've learned are the things that I've studied and applied and found what works for me, my children and my students.

And they're things I want to share. They can make a huge difference. So when we look at what our children's behaviors are not, it helps us to see the foundational reason because if we say that's my child's personality, they've always been that way since the time she was a toddler, she would do XYZ, you know, she would say no, she would be stubborn, she would be.

It's just her personality. But when we say it's better personality. Then we stop looking for answers. We stop saying, well, how can I help her enjoy life? How can I help her to find joy, comfort and peace? We really need to look beyond that. There was a whole lot with all the shutdowns that went on into 2020 and those that after they found out. That people's personalities changed during those types of shutdowns.

People who were outgoing, really introverted or people who are introverted became more help going online or in other places and so on. There's been a whole lot of of research and study that has happened that says wait personalities are not as set in stone as we thought and this is something that I already because if we said, oh it's just her personality, then I wouldn't be on here recording these videos because it could be said I was shy, I would talk in a soft and I would have small. And I know that there have been many people who have changed their personalities that have really stepped out of their shells or pool used to be outgoing and then something happens. they turn inwards, so it's bought. Just what their personality is, our personalities are based on many meanings that can change, and some of it is our own perception of ourselves.

And when we can change our perceptions, then we can. Outwardly to other people, it would look like we changed our personality. So when we look at children and we might label them and say they're lazy or oh, it's just their personality, that is not true. It's really, truly our personalities, our programs that we run in our head. And so we get to choose as adults once we understand about choosing and. That we can choose those because it's one thing to know, we can choose it, and it's another thing to know. How we can choose it? Because it does seem very safe until we learn how to change. So as you look at your children, understand that this is a program they're running. If they're strong, if they're stubborn and that combative. But you go, oh, but this is like really good in in real world situations, this is a leader in the making.

You've just toned that prevention. Then we can really begin to help our children and help them to see how they can choose. The traits, the characteristics that they want to develop and create out, it is not something that is set in stone and isn't that such an amazing thing. So. I do like to say so along. As you look at your child.

Kind of look for what's underneath, because none of us are RBG. Yours, some of us are, are, are actions. We're not the best thing we've done. We're not the worst thing we've done. And we're not our sisters. Our children are not. So when we go ahead and Accept what our children's behaviors are not, which is their personality, that it's unchangeable; that's just who they are.

or how they are, then we can really get some of those foundational music. About. Why do they have those behaviors and why are they choosing those behaviors? Because it's a choice. Whether it's a conscious or a subconscious choice, it is still a choice. And so, as you want to know more, you have a free workshop, master class, whatever you want to call it that I do Thursday night at 8:00 PM Eastern. Please join me if you want to go a little bit deeper. The link will be below or beside or somewhere around here depending on what device you're on, and I will. And more of these videos or on Thursday night, remember, the children are made by their very nature and we have that privilege and that responsibility, Prince. bye bye